What a crazy ride it has been, seriously.
Someone was asking me the other day how my Spring has been, that they have not seen much of our family…yadda yadda yadda.
All I could do was stop, and shake my head and say: “You know, I am glad this last six months is done and I have a summer stretching out in front of me.” After all, honesty is something I prize in other people, and cant stand folks without it.
I have had a rough week. My oldest daughter is doing very well, hair is growing back in, she is quicker, and funnier, and smarter, and frankly, I wish we had taken the route of the shunt replacement much sooner. The whole fiasco with her health has taught me a couple things: One, it is better to be ready to help yourself when you can and be proactive about your health because those doctors and nurses are still just human. And TWO, that sometimes serious things need serious medical care when necessary.
About a week ago after a fun lunch date out with my family, I suddenly experienced a loss of vision and then progressive weakness and numbness in my right side. Within 24 hours I was hospitalized, scared, unable to see well from my right eye, or use my right arm. The next morning my right toes were numb and slowly this progressed up my right leg. Lots of tests later, it was determined I did not show signs of a stroke or brain bleed, but that the doctors were stumped.
Enter in one scared husband with a determination we would not take that answer for certain, and next thing I know we are sitting with a neurologist who is throwing around words like “MS”, “micro-clot” and “mini stroke”. Not to mention the words MRI and Lumbar Puncture, the last of which about made me pee my pants (I have had one, thank you, and ONE was ENOUGH).
Log story short, I have been having health issues and time issues. Just trying to get on here to blog and share our life (which has suddenly narrowed down to some serious things) has been tough. And I owe you better than that.
I am now confined to my couch for two weeks, with short stints of regular life, until more results come in. I am thankful to know that MS is no longer an option, even as my heart goes out to the friends and family I have that suffer from it. There are some other serious things on the table though, and for a time, I wont know those answers. But if you don’t mind, for that time, I would like to just go back to chatting with you, sharing slices of our life here, and some good cups of coffee. My symptoms are slowly easing and I am regaining use of my vision and my right side day by day, which is such a blessing. You never realize what you take for granted until you don’t have it anymore. Right?
I hope your Thursday is going well and I pray that you will have peace and comfort today.
Blessings to you and yours,
~Heather <3
PS, the image is of one of my daughters, who has really struggled with the scare of losing her mamma for a couple days. She climbed into my lap, and fell asleep. Since she was so upset with me she would not talk on the phone to me, it made my day. <3 Pray for my kids please, and the Handy Hubby as he is trying to be strong through everything too, and carrying a load…..
Praying Gods blessings for you and your families total recovery of health.
thanks a million for that, Charlotte. We sure could use them. <3
~Heather <3
Wow – I am VERY glad that MS has been ruled out. I wonder maybe if you had been so busy and so stressed if this transferred over into a physical issue?
(((hugs))) Continuing to pray!
Boy I sure hope not. We are getting more tests back daily and instead it looks like there might be an issue with a clotting disorder or another auto immune disorder showing up. Only the Lord knows, so we are hanging in there and staying focused on the good things, the small steps forward to healing. <3
Thanks for commenting and praying <3
~Heather <3
Oh Heather, so sorry you are going through this. Will keep you and your family in my prayers.
ty Cathy <3
Blessings,
~Heather
You are in my prayers. Iam new to your blog, and love means reaching out to all, especially those in need.In the tough times that is when God is more present in our life, speak to him nonstop, he’s listening and recite thru out the day ” By Jesus’s stripes I am healed” Do NOT claim any sickness or disease as he already went to the cross and took them all for us, so you will not accept any!!!!!!
Blessings to you and comfort and courage to your faminly in Jesus’s name…Amen.
Hello Cynthia and welcome to my blog! Thank you for your kind and encouraging words! I am not accepting any disease or anything that has not already been laid on me by the Hand of God himself. 🙂 After all, he allowed the testing of such godly men as Job, Moses, and Paul…teaching them to rely on His strength and guidance as what is best during their lifetimes. 🙂
I personally believe that physical struggles bring us closer to the God who heals us, and walks with us through it.
Thank you for commenting!
Blessings,
~Heather <3
Heather you and your family are in my prayers, especially your children it is a scary world but to think you might lose one of your parents due to illness is just too much ,but God is good and will not give you more than you can handle..sometimes I wonder how much that is? not to be irreverent really.. I have a sister that has had so many health issues it just does not seem fail. Anyway I will be praying for you and your husband and your daughters, you seem like such a trooper and I know that is because you are a woman of faith. Hang on and keep doing that which is good in the sight of God and you will be victorious!
oh Pat, what a good question to ask! I do not see anywhere in scripture that God tells us He will never give us more than we can handle…I think that is what we CHOOSE to believe. Instead I see all through Scripture the love of God where he says” When you are WEAK, then I am STRONG” or “I can do all things through CHRIST who strengthens me..”. He carries us, walks with us, encourages us, cries with us, cheers with us, and whispers hope to us. I have asked myself many times this last year if I am focusing more on the circumstances I am dealing with or on the lessons the Lord is trying to cement in my heart through them. <3 I will pray for your sister, and for you, and that you will again see how great, and how strong, and how MUCH our God really is………
Hugs to you
~Heather <3
My prayers are for an answer to your health issues and prayers that your entire family will handle daily life well.
Thank You Debi. Answers would be wonderful. <3
Blessings,
~Heather <3
God bless & keep all of you! My husband has had 3 heart attacks in the last year, & each time, we are both faced with a very real glimpse of our own mortality, and it can REALLY rock your world – even when you already live with other physical disabilities. Each new day, each breath we take, each person in our lives is a huge blessing. I pray we never take anything or anyone for granted…
Just catching up and found your message. So very sorry to hear of your health issues. Praying for the Doctors and you as you travel through this journey. So happy that your oldest daughter is doing so much better. I will continue to keep her and the rest of your loved ones in my thoughts and prayers. Sending BIG ((HUGS))
Thanks Jan!!
Blessings and hgs to you!
~Heather <3